Cgurl32 asked:

my husband who was in the navy for 12 years and i have different thoughts on our kids. can you please tell me if there is children out there that never lies, and cleans there room every time there told too, never does something half way when told to do something, and never gives an attitude when told to do something? is it possilbe for our kids to be like this they are 10, 13 , 13 , 15 , 17? my husband gets very mad when asks the kids if they did something and they lie about it when he tells them to clean there room and they dont are give an attitude when its time to do chores . i was told he is just strict for being in the military. they have to walk a straight line and the punishments are extreme. exp. my son detroyed his sisters toy 1- hubby spanked him 2- put him on his knees also and 3 gave his favorite toy to his sister , i thought that was too extreme am i wrong?
and plz dont criticize me, i dont want my kids to be like that but my parents were never there to teach me
i under stand him getting mad i dont like it when they do that stuff but arent kids gonna be kids ? any way i just wanna know if its me being to soft are him too hard and the punishments are knees for a while taking there stuff away and severe cases light spankings
he also speaks very demanding to the kids and strong mean voice like a drill sargent
my parents weren’t there for me cause they chose not too it was pretty much neglet , and i wanna say thanks for all the comments it gonna be very hard choosing a best answer

waterfallsprings1000 asked:

make a list that tells what happens to kids in life like relationships and life

ex- 1rst- i dont know

2nd- iknow

3rd- i dont know
i mean like make a list like this that tells what happens in each school grade of a persons life?
like this:

1rst grade- tell what 1rst graders do like.. i dont know

2nd grade- tell what 2nd graders are doing

and so on 2 12th grade

Sangy . asked:

THIS IS TOO SWEET FOR WORDS!!!

A six-year-old boy told his father he wanted to marry
the little girl across the street. The father, being modern and
well-schooled in handling children, hid his smile behind his hand.

“That’s a serious step,” he said. “Have you thought it
out completely?”

“Yes,” his young son answered. “We can spend one week in
my room and the next in hers. It’s right across the street, so I can run
home if I get scared of the dark.”

“How about transportation?” the father asked.

“I have my wagon, and we both have our tricycles,” the
little boy answered. The boy had an answer to every question the father
raised.

Finally, in exasperation, his dad asked, “What about babies? When you’re
married, you’re liable to have babies, you know.”

“We’ve thought about that, too,” the little boy replied.
“We’re not going to have babies. Every time she lays an egg, I’m going
to step on it!”

flirtygal23 asked:

My fiancee, who i haven’t heard or seen in three weeks, told me that we should have kids. I’m worrying because my father said that i should not have kids till I really know I want them. I don’t really know. My fiancee is totally pushing me to say yes.

daddio asked:

my wee girl is exposed to a very loud barking dog at her grans house. my fiance says she has to get used to loud noises, but i am concerned about her hearing. she is only 1 past last month. she already seems to be shouting alot. do you think i am correct to be concerned? any advise would be most welcome.

Martha S asked:

My kids live with me and my husband his kids live with their mother and the other is married with kids of her own. For the last year we have had major issues with his kids as when they were down for the summer his son physically assualted my 6 year old and his daughter got mad and busted our tv after weeks of hell we sent them home. We know most of it is their mother nad the way they are raised at home but still we couldn’t handle it. Now the holiday is here and we have done our shopping. We took the child support I get from my kids and bought their X-mas with it and as usual put the rest in the bank. My husband and I both refuse to use my kids money to buy his kids gifts. We then went when he got paid and bought his kids a few nice gifts. His kids suddenly appeared the other night to come down for the weekend to see their grandfather that is dying and saw that my kids had more under the tree and now they are mad are we right or should use kids money to even it out?
If the kids were here all the time it would be different but he sends their mom 1400 a month in support and we feel she needs to provide for them just as I don’t expect my ex to do it all when he sends me money for our kids. My kids also have more because they asked for simple things like clothes, board games small toys etc while his wants i pods, dvd players and cell phones. Money wise it was all about the same but number wise it isn’t. We just want peace and told them it isn’t about what you get but family and they got madder. His oldest that is married got one thing but we wiped off a 2000 loan we had given her this summer as her X-mas and she said that was wrong as her father he shouldn’t dun her for that money anyway. I am ready to forget the holiday all together.
My kids are 6, 8 and 14 his kids are 24, 13 and 15